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Icebreakers · Connectors & Mixers

Stand Up, Sit Down

Visually reveals commonalities across the room without requiring anyone to speak.

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Duration
15 min
Participants
1–5, 5–10, 10–20, 20–50, 50+
Energy
Medium
Difficulty
Beginner
Materials
Minimal
Prep time
5 minutes

2 min read · Delivery: Offline

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Overview

Purpose. Visually reveals commonalities across the room without requiring anyone to speak.

When to use. Early in a session, especially with a group that doesn't know each other well yet.

Best for. Any group size, in person.

Facilitator preparation

  • Prepare a list of statements in advance, starting light and gradually getting more personal, for example “I have a pet” or “This is my first training session.”

Room setup. Arrange seating so everyone can see and hear each other clearly.

Virtual setup. This works well virtually too; have participants turn their camera on or use a reaction icon instead of standing.

Hybrid setup. Give remote participants the same on-camera or reaction option while in-room participants stand.

Materials. A list of prepared statements

How to Conduct

  1. Read a statement aloud, for example “I have a pet” or “This is my first training session.”
  2. Anyone the statement is true for stands up; everyone else stays seated.
  3. Pause a moment so people can see who's standing, then move to the next statement.
  4. Start with light, low-personal statements and gradually move to more revealing ones as comfort builds.

WHAT TO EXPECT FROM THE GROUP

  • Expect a little shyness in the first 30 seconds, followed by a quick warm-up once one or two people go first.

After the activity

DEBRIEF QUESTIONS

  • What part of “Stand Up, Sit Down” felt easy, and what part felt harder than expected?
  • Did any statement reveal more people standing than you expected?

REFLECTION QUESTIONS

  • Where in your day-to-day work could a quick, visual way to spot common ground be useful?

Learning outcome. Participants leave having discovered several things they have in common with colleagues, without anyone needing to speak.

Variations and cautions

Printable checklist

  • Prepared statement list
  • Debrief questions ready
  • Timer set for 10–15 min
  • Room set up so all can see who's standing

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