Be My Mirror

Purpose. Builds observation and connection through physical mimicry.

When to use. Early in a session, especially with a group that doesn't know each other well yet.

Best for. Any group size, in person.

• No materials to gather; just read through the steps once before you run it.

Room setup. Open enough floor space for pairs to spread out and hear only their own partner.

Virtual setup. This works best in person. If you must run it virtually, have pairs mirror each other over video call in breakout rooms.

Hybrid setup. Pair remote participants with each other in breakout rooms alongside the in-room pairing.

Materials.

1. Ask participants to mingle briefly (a “mingle mingle” round); when you call stop, whoever is nearest becomes their partner.
2. Have each pair decide who will be the “mirror” first.
3. The non-mirror partner makes slow, simple movements; the mirror copies them as closely as possible, as if reflecting them.
4. After a minute or two, have the pair switch roles.
5. Repeat with new partners for another round if time allows.

Learning outcome. Participants leave having practiced close observation and nonverbal connection with a partner.

• No materials needed
• Debrief questions ready
• Timer set for 10–15 min
• Open floor space for pairs